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Pacifism is best
Published on April 21, 2008 By erathoniel In Help

    Here's some advice for all people dealing with any form of bullying or confrontation.

  1. If the other person hurts you, it gives you the high ground. Do not settle it yourself.
  2. Do not directly or indirectly physically or verbally attack an opponent.
  3. You gain an advantage under any civilized authority if you let an attack lie.
  4. A sweet answer turns away wrath, remember this and use it often.
  5. Do not backstab. It's the sneakiest, most effictive, most frowned upon strategy.
  6. Confront a bully face-to-face, stand up to him.
  7. Do not attack a bully, instead merely tell him that you are changing your ways and he will no longer rule you.
  8. This works best in the specific context of being under a civilized authority. If the bully knows his stuff, and isn't just insecure, it can turn back on you.
  9. A bully is insecure, try to help him out of his troubles so he no longer hurts you or others. Do not imply there is anything wrong with him, however.
  10. Always help others if they are harassed, but do not retailate beyond necessary due measure to end the conflict.

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on Apr 22, 2008
Pacifism will not always work.


This is why I refer to myself, not as a pacifist, but as a "committed non-aggressivist". I will not attack anyone, but if my life or family is threatened, will not hesitate to fight back.
on Apr 22, 2008
Here, these will work just as well...

~Convince the bully to do trust falls with you.
~Tell the bully, "mommy says your just jealous of me!"
~Remind the bully that trees and flowers cry when people bully others."
~Pull the thorn from the bully's paw.
~Tell the bully, "I feel your pain."
~Dance around the bully naked singing, "All I am asking, is give peace a chance."
on Apr 22, 2008
You should change the title of this post to... Here's some advice for being a candy ass whimp.
on Apr 22, 2008
~Dance around the bully naked singing, "All I am asking, is give peace a chance."


Ted, are you trying to blind the bully?
on Apr 22, 2008
Everyone seemed to miss the very frist rule for a situation when one finds their selves being bullied. No matter what age you are. Tell someone. If you are a child, tell an adult, whether a Teacher, Principal or your parents. If you are older, and it does happen, tell someone in authority, like Police.

The road of life is not smooth and straight, if you are going to travel it you better know how to do it safely.

Here's another point, offering up your opinion is far different that providing advice and help. We hear and read peoples opinions everyday, advice or help should only be given when asked for.

Just my personal opinion.   
on Apr 22, 2008
Here's some advice for being a candy ass whimp.


  

~Zoo
on Apr 22, 2008
Zoo: That made me laugh too.

Erathoniel: As a conservative and presumably a war supporter, how do you reconcile your suggestions here with your belief that the war in Iraq is right and just?
on Apr 22, 2008
You should change the title of this post to... Here's some advice for being a candy ass whimp.


on Apr 22, 2008
Jythier:
Ted, are you trying to blind the bully?


These white knees are more powerful than any laser weapon! ;~D

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