Why does everyone need a day to victimize themselves for their own choices?
It seems like if you don't believe there's anything wrong with what you're doing, you don't need a day to mourn your victimization. Get over yourselves. You choose something, you can live with it. I support non-harassment, sure, but I do not believe that it is anyone's right to declare themselves special for their victimization.
When I am persecuted for the name of Christ who I stand for (poor representative I am), I am not ashamed, but I count it all as gain.